7 Positions for a Guy with a Big Penis

Contrary to the popular belief that “bigger is always better,” sex for a well-endowed man (7.5 inches or more) can present challenges. For you guys, here are seven hot sex positions that can make sex amazing and pleasurable for you and your partner.

If you’re packing more than the average guy, the best thing is for your partner to be able to control the depth and speed. Woman-on-top positions or side-by-side are usually a good choice. Avoid doggy style or legs over the head missionary positions since they allow for extra deep penetration and might be extremely uncomfortable for her.

Whatever position you choose, remember: lots of foreplay – long enough to get your partner adequately aroused – and use lube. Take it slow. Enter her carefully and build up to a more intense thrusting so she’s not caught off guard.



Woman on top positions are the best choice because she can control penetration depth and speed at all times. If you’re really big, draw your knees up to keep her from accidentally going too deep. It might be difficult to get close enough for her to get the clitoral stimulation she needs, but you can easily take care of her with your hands.

inverted missionary

Inverted Missionary

Lie down and have her lay on top of you. Encourage her to grind her pussy on you with plenty of hot and heavy kissing to start your session. When she’s ready, slip inside and rock back and forth. The angle of her vagina means that you won’t feel so deep that it hurts and you get the extra bonus of frontal friction.

lap dance

Lap Dance

Sit on a chair with no arms and have her straddle your lap, either facing toward you or away from you. Let her guide your penis inside her. She doesn’t need to take it all the way if it feels too much — remember, the key is to let her be in control.

speed bump

Speed Bump

Bored of her on top? You can take her from behind, too — just modify it a little. Have her close her legs to control the depth of penetration and lie flat instead of being up on her hands and knees.

betty rocker

Betty Rocker

Another great rear-entry position. Lie down and let her straddle you, facing away. She can control how far she allows you inside her, plus you’ll get a full view of all the action. She’s perfectly placed to give dome extra attention to her clit, and you can play with her anus if she’s into that.



Having sex sideways is perfect for guys with bigger penises since neither one of you will be able to fully thrust. The limited range of motion is still pretty sexy, since your hands are free to caress her breasts and clitoris.

missionary position

Missionary Position

Sure, it gets a bad rap for being boring, but Missionary is good for guys with large penises, The angle of penetration isn’t great for going deep – but is still incredible for working up her G-spot. When in missionary, put her legs on the inside of yours, so you don’t penetrate too deep. The extra clitoral stimulation will feel really good for her too.

  • Crystal

    My man is very, very hung and while we do need to take our time getting into things most nights, I’ve never had a problem having GREAT sex with him in ANY position. Sure, he can’t always go all in, but we both always enjoy ourselves very much.

    Spooning is a great position to start in. My boyfriend and I love pretty much any variation on doggy style, especially when I lay flat on my stomach with a pillow underneath my hips and him kneeling between or over my legs. This is also great for intimacy because he can lean forward and envelope me, give me kisses, hug me, etc.

  • sexythang

    I don’t think it’s a secret that most women prefer large cocks, gentlemen. That’s not to say that a guy who’s average sized or on the small side can’t be a fantastic lover. But all things equal … yeah, I’ll take a guy who’s hung.